OK, I recently reconnected with some old friends from high school and I have had a ball reminiscing and looking at old pictures. It's so much fun to look back on how we were back then.
But then things took a sour note. I found out that apparently I offended an old boyfriend of mine and didn't even know it.
He said "I don't have exceptionally good memories concerning you." Then he proceeded to tell me that he didn't want to fake being my friend. The whole thing left me sitting with my jaw on the ground, unable to think of a good response.
The thing that irks me is I honestly don't remember things ending badly. I was 14 years old. Honestly what could I possibly have done that caused someone to hate me and carry a grudge for 19 years and I don't even know why?? That is just crazy. The sad thing is I have good memories of him. He was my first real boyfriend and my first kiss. How sad! But what can I do?
All I can do is vent to you all. I apologized for whatever it was. I told him I only had fond memories of him. Then I said that I was very taken aback that he had held a grudge all these years and I didn't even know why. It's actually probably a sign of a not so healthy (mental wise) person. We were 14 years old, so if the relationship and subsequent breakup scarred him that bad, I probably wouldn't want to associate with him anyhow.
Have you ever had something similar happen to you? Has someone held a grudge against you for a very long time and you didn't even know why? I would love to hear about it.
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